What is empathy?
- A way to connect with
- how it is for the person
- what they are trying to convey
- a deeper essence of what is going on in them
Why?
- To connect with others
- To understand others
- To increase my capacity to be compassionate (pleasurable and empowering)
- To contribute to another’s well-being
- their need for connection with another person
- their need for understanding
- their need for clarity
- their need for compassion/self-compassion
How?
- By focusing our attention on feelings and needs
When to speak it aloud?
- To deepen the quality of our connection:
- when I want to check if my understanding matches their experience
- when I sense the person wants confirmation they’re understood
- When I sense it would support the person’s clarity or deeper self-connection (use this with discretion and caution)
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